Chowrangi

“Bus Yar Guzar Rahi Hai” approach has become ubiquitous in our society. If you merely surviving and not living and going through the motions and letting things dictate your life instead of you choosing how you wanted to live, then you are in a rut.

If you have hit rock bottom after slowly and steadily declining and you cannot pin down how it exactly it happened and you are unable to describe the lowest point of your life. Things are real gloomy and glum and grim. You have no family. You have run out of money. You are deeply in debt and you earn very little money, and whatever you earn doesn’t even satisfy your breathing cost, and you earn it very great pain. You are over-weight and you have little to celebrate. You have no savings and you have no contacts or references.

You remain tired all the time and you sleep and take naps a lot. You are depressed and frustrated and are near to become a psycho. You are chain smoker and about to become a drug addict. You cannot make and sustain your decision and every thing is falling apart. You procrastinate on anything and everything.

You are not romantic, but you want to love and be loved. You like the opposite gender, and want to have a lovely relationship, but you always trip and lose. You consider yourself a constant loser and a despicable person. Your personality is bland and attraction less. You never seem t have time for anything and you are not either accomplishing anything worthwhile.

You always feel stressed and anxious and this keeps you from being able to truly relax even though you lay around so much. You are irritable most of the time and even are fed up of yourself. You are in really bad shape and your whole being is in disarray. You don’t anymore care as how you look, feel and treat others and nothing happens in your life to change you.

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Remember nobody can help you in this state. Only You can help yourself. You are the only one who can change your life. None is going to get you in gear, but you. You would go nowhere and die in self-pity and self-persecution, if you carry on like this, and no one would give a damn.

So get up, shed the miser, took the world by toe. Just do it. Gather whatever you have and plan and focus and exert your all efforts to snatch your share with hard work, hope, perseverance and intelligence. World is yours. Life is yours. Effort is yours.

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