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	<title>Comments on: Love Marriage vs Arrange Marriage</title>
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		<title>by: Shakir Lakhani</title>
		<link>http://www.chowrangi.com/love-marriage-vs-arrange-marriage.html#comment-120471</link>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Feb 2008 18:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>This is an old one. A more recent joke is the one about the son of a very rich man who tells his girl friend that after his father dies, he (the son) will inherit all his wealth. The girl friend then met the father and persuaded him to marry her. Soon the father died, but the son didn't get anything, his father had left everything to his young wife.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is an old one. A more recent joke is the one about the son of a very rich man who tells his girl friend that after his father dies, he (the son) will inherit all his wealth. The girl friend then met the father and persuaded him to marry her. Soon the father died, but the son didn&#8217;t get anything, his father had left everything to his young wife.</p>
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		<title>by: Mohammad Yusha</title>
		<link>http://www.chowrangi.com/love-marriage-vs-arrange-marriage.html#comment-120277</link>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Feb 2008 01:41:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Two men, one American and an Indian were sitting in a bar drinking shot after shot.

The Indian man said to the American,”You know my parents are forcing me to get married to this so called girl from a village whom I haven’t even met once.We call this arranged marriage.I don’t want to marry a woman whom I don’t love…I told them that openly and now have a hell lot of family problems.”

The American said, “Talking about love marriages…I’ll tell you my story.

I married a widow whom I deeply loved and dated for 3 years.
“After a couple of years, my father fell in love with my
step-daughter and so my father became my son-in-law and I became my father’s father-in-law.My daughter is my mother and my wife my grandmother. More problems occurred when I had a son. My son is my father’s brother and so he my uncle. Situations turned worse when my father had a son. Now my father’s son i.e. my brother is my grandson.
Ultimately, I have become my own grand father and I am my owngrandson.
And you say you have family problems..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Two men, one American and an Indian were sitting in a bar drinking shot after shot.</p>
<p>The Indian man said to the American,”You know my parents are forcing me to get married to this so called girl from a village whom I haven’t even met once.We call this arranged marriage.I don’t want to marry a woman whom I don’t love…I told them that openly and now have a hell lot of family problems.”</p>
<p>The American said, “Talking about love marriages…I’ll tell you my story.</p>
<p>I married a widow whom I deeply loved and dated for 3 years.<br />
“After a couple of years, my father fell in love with my<br />
step-daughter and so my father became my son-in-law and I became my father’s father-in-law.My daughter is my mother and my wife my grandmother. More problems occurred when I had a son. My son is my father’s brother and so he my uncle. Situations turned worse when my father had a son. Now my father’s son i.e. my brother is my grandson.<br />
Ultimately, I have become my own grand father and I am my owngrandson.<br />
And you say you have family problems..</p>
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		<title>by: Haris</title>
		<link>http://www.chowrangi.com/love-marriage-vs-arrange-marriage.html#comment-105007</link>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Dec 2007 12:04:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I think this is a good definition of the problems faced by individuals in Love and Arrange marriage but things are not that simple. 
We can not say that Love marriage or Arrange marriage is successful just because they are love or arrange. 
Relationships are becoming more and more complex. I believe that we should give ourself some time before committing with someone else. We should see that whether we can live with the other person happily and not only we but does this relationship is feasible for the other party also?

I strongly believe that if people consider other party's expectation along with their expectations from the relationship and then decide. In this way they can easily live a happy life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think this is a good definition of the problems faced by individuals in Love and Arrange marriage but things are not that simple.<br />
We can not say that Love marriage or Arrange marriage is successful just because they are love or arrange.<br />
Relationships are becoming more and more complex. I believe that we should give ourself some time before committing with someone else. We should see that whether we can live with the other person happily and not only we but does this relationship is feasible for the other party also?</p>
<p>I strongly believe that if people consider other party&#8217;s expectation along with their expectations from the relationship and then decide. In this way they can easily live a happy life.</p>
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		<title>by: Shakir Lakhani</title>
		<link>http://www.chowrangi.com/love-marriage-vs-arrange-marriage.html#comment-104716</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2007 18:36:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I wonder why the writer chose this subject to write about. Even in India, 95% of all mmarriages are arranged because males and females are not allowed to mix. And it's not true that in arranged marriages, love develops after marriage. Not all married men and women are happy, because of the stresses of married life. It requires a great deal of patience and maturity to make a marriage work. Although outsiders may think an arranged-marriage couple is happy, in reality they may hate each other without letting others know about it. Has anyone ever compiled statsitics on how many love marriages and how many arranged marriages end up in divorce? Without such data, it is useless to talk about the subject.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wonder why the writer chose this subject to write about. Even in India, 95% of all mmarriages are arranged because males and females are not allowed to mix. And it&#8217;s not true that in arranged marriages, love develops after marriage. Not all married men and women are happy, because of the stresses of married life. It requires a great deal of patience and maturity to make a marriage work. Although outsiders may think an arranged-marriage couple is happy, in reality they may hate each other without letting others know about it. Has anyone ever compiled statsitics on how many love marriages and how many arranged marriages end up in divorce? Without such data, it is useless to talk about the subject.</p>
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