Comments on: Dangerous Addiction http://www.chowrangi.com/dangerous-addiction.html Pakistan Politics, Current Affairs, Business and Lifestyle Sun, 12 Oct 2008 00:08:30 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0 by: Jafar Husayni http://www.chowrangi.com/dangerous-addiction.html#comment-202082 Sun, 05 Oct 2008 14:29:29 +0000 http://www.chowrangi.com/dangerous-addiction.html#comment-202082 help me im addicted help me im addicted

]]> by: Mohammad Yusha http://www.chowrangi.com/dangerous-addiction.html#comment-200783 Mon, 29 Sep 2008 16:08:24 +0000 http://www.chowrangi.com/dangerous-addiction.html#comment-200783 their is no need for medication. Stopping is enough. their is no need for medication. Stopping is enough.

]]> by: Worried http://www.chowrangi.com/dangerous-addiction.html#comment-200689 Mon, 29 Sep 2008 02:12:03 +0000 http://www.chowrangi.com/dangerous-addiction.html#comment-200689 plzz some one tell me ... if i have stopped masturbating n now i want to re gain my strength how is this is possible medically ??? do i need to take any medication of stopping masturbation is enough??? i have been doing this for a very long time plzz some one tell me … if i have stopped masturbating n now i want to re gain my strength how is this is possible medically ??? do i need to take any medication of stopping masturbation is enough???
i have been doing this for a very long time

]]> by: HurtWife http://www.chowrangi.com/dangerous-addiction.html#comment-199877 Thu, 25 Sep 2008 08:36:31 +0000 http://www.chowrangi.com/dangerous-addiction.html#comment-199877 I really liked your second post; I am young, thin and decent looking but I feel hideous because i am never good enuf for my hubby. After all, he can delete those girls and choose a new one to get off too every few minutes...I am always the same body and that bores him. I want to be close to my hubby but it's hard when I know that I am not good enough. As for masturbation, well I think it's okay if sometimes it is done. after all, wouldn't it be weird to have sex with a guy who didn't even know how his body works? But it should not be something a person 'must have'. I really liked your second post; I am young, thin and decent looking but I feel hideous because i am never good enuf for my hubby. After all, he can delete those girls and choose a new one to get off too every few minutes…I am always the same body and that bores him. I want to be close to my hubby but it’s hard when I know that I am not good enough.

As for masturbation, well I think it’s okay if sometimes it is done. after all, wouldn’t it be weird to have sex with a guy who didn’t even know how his body works? But it should not be something a person ‘must have’.

]]> by: Mohammad Yusha http://www.chowrangi.com/dangerous-addiction.html#comment-122274 Fri, 22 Feb 2008 16:26:56 +0000 http://www.chowrangi.com/dangerous-addiction.html#comment-122274 by refraning from masturbatiion a person learns to save energy, learns self- control and stays physically fit. Those who masturbate feel sleepy and tired because they have wasted energy. by refraning from masturbatiion a person learns to save energy, learns self- control and stays physically fit. Those who masturbate feel sleepy and tired because they have wasted energy.

]]> by: Mohammad Yusha http://www.chowrangi.com/dangerous-addiction.html#comment-122110 Fri, 22 Feb 2008 00:29:19 +0000 http://www.chowrangi.com/dangerous-addiction.html#comment-122110 The women shown in porn come from a very narrow part of the wide spectrum of how real women look. They are young, they are thin, they have large breasts, and so on. In addition, these women may wear makeup from head to toe, they are filmed with lighting that hides blemishes, and the pictures may be air brushed or digitally altered after they are taken. The women in the pictures and videos do not look as good in real life as what is sold to the public, and most women can't even come close to looking like these women look. How can a man look at these false images of "sexual perfection" and not begin to think less of his wife? How can he not be affected by these images? It is impossible for someone to view pornography and not be affected by it. The women shown in porn come from a very narrow part of the wide spectrum of how real women look. They are young, they are thin, they have large breasts, and so on. In addition, these women may wear makeup from head to toe, they are filmed with lighting that hides blemishes, and the pictures may be air brushed or digitally altered after they are taken. The women in the pictures and videos do not look as good in real life as what is sold to the public, and most women can’t even come close to looking like these women look.

How can a man look at these false images of “sexual perfection” and not begin to think less of his wife? How can he not be affected by these images? It is impossible for someone to view pornography and not be affected by it.

]]> by: Mohammad Yusha http://www.chowrangi.com/dangerous-addiction.html#comment-122109 Fri, 22 Feb 2008 00:22:02 +0000 http://www.chowrangi.com/dangerous-addiction.html#comment-122109 Porn arouses - that's what it's designed to do. When we are aroused by something it creates a positive reinforce in our minds. This leads us to seek out the thing that aroused us again and again. In a normal sexual relationship with another person this works well, but with porn there's a problem. Because the porn is incomplete, it's power to arouse is limited. Over time a man needs "stronger" porn to get the same arousal - it's very much like a drug addict needing more of the drug to get a high, and the same brain process are responsible for both addictions. The need to escalate eventually results in the man "needing" to view horrible things like bestiality or rape, or the same kind of porn must be consumed in larger and larger quantities. Porn is like Cancer - the damage can be rather extensive before any hint of a problem exists. Porn can also destroy marriage. Porn can eat away at the healthy sexuality of a marriage, slowly perverting and destroying what Allah intended sex in marriage to be. Porn arouses - that’s what it’s designed to do. When we are aroused by something it creates a positive reinforce in our minds. This leads us to seek out the thing that aroused us again and again. In a normal sexual relationship with another person this works well, but with porn there’s a problem.

Because the porn is incomplete, it’s power to arouse is limited. Over time a man needs “stronger” porn to get the same arousal - it’s very much like a drug addict needing more of the drug to get a high, and the same brain process are responsible for both addictions. The need to escalate eventually results in the man “needing” to view horrible things like bestiality or rape, or the same kind of porn must be consumed in larger and larger quantities.

Porn is like Cancer - the damage can be rather extensive before any hint of a problem exists. Porn can also destroy marriage. Porn can eat away at the healthy sexuality of a marriage, slowly perverting and destroying what Allah intended sex in marriage to be.

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