Consequences of Masturbation
The body is an amazing thing if used correctly.Your mood and level of happiness is directly effected to how you treat your body. When a person is addicted to masturbation it has a direct effect on their mental health. When a person lacks control in any area of his life he is not as happy as he could be if he was in control of that area. This is especially true with masturbation.
Everyone instinctively feels bad when they misuse the body. Some people choose to ignore these feelings and pretend to be happy when they actually are not since they lack inner peace. Masturbation addiction is the opposite of self-control and instead your body controls you. Whenever your body feels an urge you feel like you have no choice but to do what it wants. This feels enslaving and saps your confidence and your ability to control your life in many aspects. When we set out to do a certain thing or accomplish a specific goal, this gives us confidence in our ability to control our bodies. When we masturbate, confidence is all but gone.
Emotionally, masturbation is devastating. Our bodies were meant to be used for a good purpose and to teach us important lessons so that our character would increase in strength. We were meant to be in control of our bodies and our destinies, not the other way around. We become strong and confident by controlling the body. When we are single that is exactly what we are supposed to do. The most confident and successful people in the world are those who have learned self-control.
When we are married we use our bodies to create a bond of love with deep feelings of care for the other person. It is an act of sharing your feelings for the other person and it produces a union that is never experienced by the lone masturbator. The single person should be in control of their body and life before getting into a marriage otherwise the outcome of the marriage can easily be predicted. Masturbation is an act that makes a person selfish since there is no bond of love and kindness being created. The single person should be in control and be confident as they maintain a hope to create a bond of love with someone in the future. There is nothing more beautiful than two people in control of their bodies and their lives coming together in marriage. That is the marriage that will most likely succeed.
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July 7th, 2008 20:11 GMT
I think Yusha has it pinned down very well. Now it m/b may not affect everyone negatively….but sexually addicted/compulsive persons like myself……m/b is a sure recipe for ruining my relationship and intimacy. I’ve been m/b compulsively for 20 years, 2-3 times a day or more.
For ME….it’s been harmful to relationships……real relationships….
Also the more I do it, it feels like the more I have to do it and ultimately I turn into a pleasure addicted robot whose life evolves around it.
Some men can do it once in awhile for a release and they’re OK. But with me like me, it has negative long-term effects for sure.
February 26th, 2008 21:56 GMT
Mr.Lakhani i dont have problems believing that. since iv heard such opinions myself
February 22nd, 2008 21:23 GMT
Karim - affects apply to everyone equally
February 22nd, 2008 16:22 GMT
Karim, can you believe that I have met some nuts who think all psychiatrists encouraging masturbation are actually Jewish/Hindu/British/U.S./Shia/Barelvi agents wanting to destroy true Muslims!
February 22nd, 2008 14:56 GMT
masturbation is mainly done by unmarried men. so the marriage wreaking affects of masturabtion really dont apply to them.
and masturbation doesnt cause premature ejaculation. inexperience does. people get better at sex with time.