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There are many people, or more precisely fathers, who give gifts to nieces and nephews but spending on their own children gives them digestion problems. Fathers talk with utmost politeness to other people’s children, but the moment they are inside the house they talk to their own children as though they are talking to dogs. It is as though one’s children are exempt from kindness.

Politeness should be for one’s own children before anyone else. Children also desire to be treated with the same politeness and respect that parents want from their children. In our society, parents demand respect. I have never been able to understand that concept. Be rude to children and then want them to respect you.

These people don’t have a personality, don’t have any friends. suffer from an inferiority complex and gain their self esteem by ordering their wife and kids around. They impose their will on their family seeking some kind of perverted satisfaction. These losers think that whatever they know is correct and are unwilling to listen to their kids and never take any advice from their wife.

Should the children know what the elders are doing when in the past our elders use to hide things from kids so they remain innocent. Yes children should know what elders are doing for children. But the wrong and devastated news should the children be told. Should the children be exposed to such material which are destructive and feed hatred for each other. Like Israel Palestine war or should they been exposed to things which might in future bring both such enemies closer in the times ahead and make them friends like our Prophet (peace be upon him) how he made his enemies his followers and his friends forever. Like all TV channels now come with parental guidance then how can children be exposed to all such news of the world. Yes all productive and friendly material should be exposed to children so we generate friends instead of enemies, even towards our enemies like our Pprophet (peace be upon him). Few material exposure does incriminate children’s mind which is very sensitive and adoptive to everything around their environment. Those are the things said about the Al-Qaeda madrasas which promotes hatred when our Prophet (peace be upon him) teaches love to even to thy enemy. That’s how he promoted and spread Islam. What should we build, destructive news to our children’s mind or should try to change the pattern and bring love to their minds even for their enemy like the Prophet (peace be upon him).

Yes this post has to do with fathers but read the whole thing first.

Interest transactions are totally haram and thus whosoever deals with interest money in any way or form will be sinful. There are grave warnings promised in the Qur’an and Sunnah for the one who deals with interest. A hadith says that one who takes interest will recieve the worst punishment in hell and in surah baqarah Allah (swt) says

“O you who believe! Fear Allah and give up what remains of your demand for usury if you are indeed believers. If you don’t, take notice of war from Allah and His messenger.”

The news we reserve with disturbing frequency, news and descriptions of wicked crimes, which mature within the family circle. The matrimonial unions tend, increasingly, to resist for a few years and then flake. Conflicts domestic companies employing lawyers and psychologists and seem radicalization from year to year.

The economic structure that provides the framework certainly not help the development of harmonious personality. Parents often must work for income that allows you to pay rent and bills and children are tossed among kindergartens, tate, grandparents and television.

Who is your mother
She used to care when you were small
But now your tall
It is time that in your devotion you do not fall
She used to wean you
And clean you
Wipe your tears
Thinking about your future with fears
Don’t forget her because of worldly gain
9 months and childbirth
Thats quite a lot
Do not forget her pain
She sacrificed her life
Only to see you become a man
But you forgot her pain
Absorbed by worldly gain
For 2 years after you were born
She slept 2 hours every night
With her sleep did she fight
Only to hush you and see you sleep tight
Man, what have you given her in return
For in her pain did she burn
When you took a turn
For gaining this world and fun
She has become old
You should know she is gold
All your desires you should beat
For jannat lies below her feet

When you came into the world, she held you in her arm You thanked her by wailing without a charm

When you were 2 year old, she fed you and bathed you. You thanked her by crying all night long.

When you were 4 years old, she taught you to walk. You thanked her by running away when she called.

When you were 6 years old, she looked after you when you were unwell You thanked her by saying what the hell

When you were 8 years old, she gave you a colouring marker You thanked her by writing on the walls, making them darker

Every parent wants to instigate their children into the world with the skills they need to be successful. Equipping children with good table manners is a chief lesson that all parents should want to give to their children. Using good table manners allows the hub to be placed on the talk not on the act of eating. Having good table manners gives people the self-belief to participate in any dining situation with no difficulty.

If parents begin teaching manners when their children are toddlers, by the time the kids are in kindergarten they will have mastery of the basics.

In the last 10 years a large number of women have made their ways to corporate environment and started their working lives, this has brought positive as well as negative impact on not only their own lives but also on the lives of those connected to them, especially their children. Bond among parents and children is getting weaker and it has been observed that since both the parents are working, generation gap is increasing. Now parents usually do not have proper time to pay attention towards their children.

Following are some tips of becoming considerate parents:

When our children are born, we have before now determined that we will raise them in the finest way we can. This liability, on the other hand, involves us making choices for them, and one of the most elementary choices we make is that of their education. And the best way to make justice with your child’s basic education and future career is Montessori Method!!

There are several benefits of a Montessori learning which helps your child to explore, discover and learn without any burden, fear or horror which usually other schools have impact on children. Children love to come school, join all the activities and participate with all interest in Montessori Method.